偶像有约

所谓真爱Rosalee: I can't go with you, Tad.Because you don't love me.You maybe want to love me,but I think what you love right now is the idea of me.You can't love someonefor what they stand for or seem to be.You have to love them for their details,for the things that are true of them and only them.所谓我爱你 虽然我不够优秀Pete：You win, OK? Fair and square.You did have an advantage or two going in, but...I want Rosie to be happy.So, I got to ask you a couple of questions.Do you know how long she keeps her hair in straight or in curly mode?Or why her favorite necklace has a starfish clasp?Do you even know that she has six different smiles? One when something flat out makes her laugh.One when she's laughing out of politeness.But there's one when she makes plans.One when she makes fun of herself.One when she's uncomfortable.And one when she's talking about her friends.I'm telling you, she is more of a treasure than you can possibly know，She's not just some wholesome small-town girl,some good-for-you breath of fresh air，she is a wonderful person with a huge heart.And the kind of beauty that a guy only sees once, you know? Once.Listen, Tad, if there is even a chance that you could break her heart,please, just, for her sake...walk away, man.Because if you do, I swear to God,I will tear you to pieces with my bare hands.Or vicious rhetoric.所谓爱没有优劣之分Angelica：So how much do you love her? Is it love, is it big love or is it great love? Love you get over in two months.Big love, two years.And great love...Great love changes your life.It's great love.You got to win her back.Have u tried everything? What did she saywhen you told her that you love her? What did she say when you kissed her?Hey, if you feel it and you don't do everything in your power to reach for it ,you are basically slapping life in the face.s my father told me when I said I'd never get that job in a bar:"Honey, your odds go up when you file an application." Everybody's Tad Hamilton to somebody, Rosalee's Tad Hamilton to you.And you're Tad Hamilton to me.So start acting like it.所谓暮然回首那人却在灯火阑珊处Rosalee: Do you think it's possible to love someone your whole life and never really realize it until something happens that makes you see?Tad:Man, what a week.Fell in love for the first time,got my heart broken for the first time,was honorable for the first time.Got bit in the ass for being honorable for the first time.Bought a farm.Angelica：When great love is rejected, Rosalee,something inside a man dies.So all he can do is run away,where he can meet the girl he'll love second most.Unless you can get to him before he closes the book on you.But once it's closed, it's closed.It's finished. It's gone, dead.It's crushed. It's beaten. It's buried.It is lost for all of time in a sea...Rosalee:You have five smiles, Pete.One when you think someone's an idiot.One when you thinksomeone's really an idiot.One when you're getting all dressed up.one when you're singing Barry White.And one when you're looking at me.

写于2010年10月17日（那些年的渣渣观后感）

人常常会在某瞬间领悟很多，甚至超越了宇宙，然后整个价值观和人生观焕然一新。如同鲁豫曾经说过，她的英语原来很差劲，突然有一天，猛地觉得对英语产生了兴趣和动力，于是英语能力突飞猛进。当这部电影还没开始的时候，盯着主题曲的屏幕，突然发现生活中太多东西不是主动来让你学习，而是要靠自己去寻找和挖掘，无时无刻都有平凡或不平凡的事物等待你去发现，而这是一种主观的学习能动力。桥段并不新鲜，男主角是当红的偶像，因为中奖的机会，女主角可以和他度过一个夜晚。他从她身上看到了自己想要追求的某种品质，于是奋不顾身地来到她身边。而在女主角的背后，有一个朋友一直默默地爱着她，当然最后他的真爱战争了偶像，赢得她的爱情。对于很多明星来说，很多东西太容易得到了，所以他并不懂得去珍惜，只知道占有和拥有，然后挥霍，直到情感灰飞烟灭。他或许总把别人说的话当台词，或许总在计算自己应该在第几秒微笑或流泪，简单而纯真的感情生活从此戴上了杯具的面具。

对待爱情，我总是觉得，想要的就得放手一搏，即使失败了也不会心痛或者后悔。毕竟心动的人不常有，遇见了就别畏畏缩缩。Tad Hamilton做到了。身为影视巨星、女性杀手，他在荧幕上风光无限，在人前寻欢作乐逢场作戏。但当他一个人留在空荡荡的别墅里一个人吃速热食品，孤独地独自醉酒，我看见的是他内心的空虚和迷惘。

独自待在别墅的Tad

但他是幸运的，因为他遇见了她——让他觉得很特别的、充满积极能量的Rosalee。

“Doesn't it hurt, smiling like that all the time?”

"You get used to it."

她会因为看见他感到激动和害羞甚至语无伦次，她会察觉他一直摆上笑容时的疲惫。她不造作、不折腾，她有自己的原则和底线。

Tad看见他们约会合影登报

这场约会结束，他看见她与他登报的合影，想起那晚的回忆，不禁露出笑容。Tad一点也不像Rosie的青梅竹马Pete——扭扭捏捏、傲娇纠结。Tad毫不迟疑，直接追到了她的家乡。

Rosie转身看见Tad

而看见Tad的她，眼神里也无疑是动心与惊喜，是真正的陷入爱情里女孩的模样。（反观她和Pete的相处模式，Pete这个毒舌没几句好话的人，时时刻刻都只会自以为是地说教加吃醋，真的产生不了丝毫恋爱的感觉）

Pete的说教

因为Pete阻挠，Rosie很是气愤

或许有人觉得Tad只是不甘心被拒绝，或者会说他不过是在演戏，但他和经纪人打电话时的真情流露，是不会假的。

"I don't want to nail her."

"She is a goodness."

他很强硬地反对经纪人所谓的"nail her"。——他就是遇见了让他觉得幸福的姑娘，让他感受得到自己的存在，让他觉得生活有意义、有幸福。他就是要追求这种幸福。

"I'm trying to feed my soul."

“I'm trying to find a way to be happy.”

而对于爱情，还有其他让我们幸福的东西，难道不都是需要Tad这样的决心和努力才能换来的吗？

"There are more important things than business."

他甚至二话不说就在这里买了间带农场的房子。在他心里，在西弗吉尼亚有个家，能和她一起安安稳稳幸幸福福地过个日子，这样的生活比事业还要让他神往。

Tad在Rosie家乡买了个带农场的房子

听闻Tad落户，Rosie也很开心

挤奶的Tad

Tad Hamilton，从前只知道泡妞的当红男星，如今因为心动的姑娘，走起传统约会追求的路线，默默付出、用心待她……Tad真的一步也没走错。然而好景不长，Tad接到了向往已久的新角色，就要离开这里回去拍戏。

刚刚接到喜讯的Tad非常兴奋

但当他冷静下来，才意识到自己不愿意离开她。“我要推掉这部戏”，他脱口而出。

"I'm going to turn it down."

我无法代表所有人，但在我看来，这是无上的勇敢。其实，到这里为止，Tad这个人物形象已经基本成型。下面的故事展开，其实是为了剧情不得不做出的转折点：Tad会说出为了让Rosie和他一起去加州而不经大脑的话（他引用了Pete对Rosie的观察），然后Rosie感动，愿意随他一起去。电影设定，Tad必须给Pete让道，所以，他犯错误是迟早的事。而这种注定，反倒使得剧情设计的他在何时何地犯错都不再重要。但其实啊，Tad根本不需要像Pete那般卑微，靠那些低到尘埃里的观察来博得Rosie那亦感动亦同情的感情。Tad只需要做最真诚的他自己，用话语和行动告诉她：我明白我来得比Pete晚了太多，但是我不在乎。因为我清楚，他了解的你，我也会看见。因为Tad是个聪明、真诚且坦然的人。他不喜欢欺骗，他不会做作。如果他真的能够骗人，那当她问起他说过多少次“我爱你”时，他完全也能够眼皮不眨地说，只对你一人说过。Tad是一个真正的敢于追求爱和幸福的、完美的爱人。他必定要给Pete让道，这个自我的、纠结的、懦弱的Pete让道，给那些自欺欺人的不敢大胆追求所爱的人臆想的完美结局让道，这才是让这部喜剧成了Tad的悲剧的原因。

“Fell in love for the first time.”

"Got bit in the ass for being honorable for the first time."

自始至终，他勇敢追求、用力去爱，最终也只能是发生的“一件事情”，让Rosie意识到Pete对她的付出。

难过的眼神

让人心碎的笑容

但是我相信Tad从不会后悔，自己曾经用力去抓住那个让他生命都觉得有了色彩的女孩。毕竟，爱就是要去捍卫和追逐。（In your face, Pete!）